Sample Wedding Ceremony Questionaire - Let's Get to Know Each Other 

Ceremony Planning Questionnaire

Please email back to me: Tom@Your-Special-Day.net

 

PLEASE TELL ME HOW YOU FOUND ME:_______________________________________________________

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Wedding Date:___________________ Ceremony Time:_____________________ Is this a holiday or holiday weekend?_______________________

Date of Rehearsal:_____________________________________ Time of Rehearsal:_________________________

Name of Wedding Director:_________________________________________ Phone Number:________________

Wedding Director’s E-Mail:______________________________________________________________________

Bride’s Full Legal Name:________________________________________________________________________

Do you use a nickname you want used in the ceremony?_________________________________________________

Bride’s address:________________________________________________________________________________

Bride's Home Phone:____________________ Cell phone: _____________ Work #:____________________ ext.___

Bride's E-Mail:_________________________________________________________________________________

Employer:___________________________________________________________ Position:___________________

Bride's Date of Birth:____________________ Age on Wedding Day:____________ Is This Your First Marriage?____

Children?______________ Ages__________________ Names:__________________________________________

Is the Bride:_______ religious: _________ spiritual:___________ neither:

Groom’s Full Legal Name:_______________________________________________________________________

Do you use a nickname you want used in the ceremony?_________________________________________________

Groom’s address:_______________________________________________________________________________

Groom’s Home Phone:__________________ Cell phone: _____________ Work #:____________________ ext.___

Groom’s E-Mail:________________________________________________________________________________

Employer:___________________________________________________________ Position:___________________

Groom’s Date of Birth:___________________ Age on Wedding Day:____________ Is This Your First Marriage?____

Children?______________ Ages__________________ Names:__________________________________________

Is the Groom:______ religious: _________ spiritual:___________ neither:

Is there any reason why you may not legally be married?______________________________________________

Site at Your Wedding:  (please circle all that apply)

Inside -- Outside:       Home -- Church -- Park -- Hotel -- Club -- Hall -- Museum -- Bed-&-Breakfast -- Historic Site

Other:________________________________________________________________________________________

What State Is Ceremony in?        Florida          What County is Ceremony in?_________________________________

Address of Ceremony Site:________________________________________________________________________

Directions to Ceremony Site:______________________________________________________________________

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Site Contact Person:____________________________________________ Phone Number & ext.:_______________

Phone Number to Reach You on Your Wedding Day:__________________________________________________

 

 

 

Let's Discuss Your Ceremony Preferences

Will your wedding be:          ___  Formal               ___Semi-formal              ___Informal              ___Casual

Is yours an Interfaith wedding?  ___Yes    ___No             A Multicultural Wedding?         ___Yes      ___No

If so, please specify:_____________________________________________________________________________

Would you like to include any specific traditions from your culture or religion?_______________________________

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Do you desire your ceremony to be:           ___Secular-Civil       ___A nonreligious ceremony only

                                                                   ___Spiritual – not heavily religious

                                                                   ___Religious – if so, what denomination

                                                                   ___Other

 

Is it permissible to use the terms:                ___Spirit         ___Creator      ___The Divine      ___God        ___Heavenly Father

Is it permissible to include:                     ___Prayer?         ___Blessing?

How many attendants are in your wedding party?_____________________ Bridesmaids____________________________________________________________ Groomsmen

Are their children in your wedding party?____________ Ring bearer/s________ Age/s______ Flower Girl/s_____________________________________________ Age/s______________

Additional members of wedding party:_______________________________________________________________

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Additional Notes:                                                                                                                                                              

                                                                                                                                                                                          

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Will Someone Accompany the Bride down the Aisle?_________________ Who?____________________________

 

Bride:

Tell me about your parents:      Are they together/ separated/divorced? ______________________________________

Names:_______________________________________________________________________________________

Siblings:  Names and their spouses if applicable:_______________________________________________________

Groom:

Tell me about your parents:      Are they together/ separated/divorced? ______________________________________

Names:_______________________________________________________________________________________

Siblings:  Names and their spouses if applicable:_______________________________________________________

What colors have you chosen for your wedding?_____________________________________________________

What flowers have you chosen for your wedding?____________________________________________________

 

 

For Full Service Ceremony Only

Please Let Me Know How You Feel About Each Other.  Be As Detailed As You Can Be.

(I will use these sentiments in designing my address and opening remarks -- it is up to you if you fill it out or not)

 

Bride:    what do you think is important to make your marriage successful?

 

 

 

Please tell me why you love this man; what are his strengths and the qualities you love about him?  What draws you to him?

 

 

Groom:   what do you think is important to make your marriage successful?

 

 

 

Please tell me why you love this woman; what are her strengths and the qualities you love about her?  What draws you to her?           

 

 

 

Please tell me about a special event the two of you shared that helped define your relationship.

 

 

 

 

Your Very Special Vows

(please see vows &  reading ideas in separate documents)

 

Please advise me as to the vows you have chosen no later than one month before your wedding.

 

Do you desire to write your own vows? (Circle One)       Bride: ____yes  ____no

                                                                                        Groom:     ____yes ____ no

 

If you have chosen to vows provided by me, what is the number of the vow you have chosen?

 

Bride:                   vow # ______    just as it is ______

 

                              Or, I would like these changes added:

 

 

 

Groom:              vow # _______    just as it is _______

 

                              Or, I would like these changes added:

 

 

 

 

 

How do you wish to be introduced at the end of your ceremony?

 

Note:     

  1. If you want to surprise each other with your vows, or comments, do not list them here but e-mail them to me separately.

  2. After your wedding, I would appreciate your e-mailing me your feedback about how you believe I have served you or how I can make my wedding ministry better.

  3. May I use your photo, first names or comments on my website?

 

Bride's Initials _________________               Groom's Initials ___________________

 

Thank you!

 

**please note that these sheets can be e-mailed back to me so you can take as many lines if you want

Feel free to create additional pages if necessary.

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Thomas E. Hirsch, Officiant      Palm Harbor, FL  34684                       

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